Why Marry George Harrison When You Can Be Him?

When I (Sharon) was in third grade and the Beatles appeared on the Ed Sullivan show, I was smitten, and so was my best friend Heidi. Our daily game of "house" featured us as housewives of the Beatles. She was Paul's wife and I was George's. (How were we to know that John was going to be the genius of the group?) The scenes we enacted came straight from sit-coms as we put too much laundry detergent in the washer or burned George and Paul's breakfast. But by 7th grade, a change had come, in the Beatles and for girls and women in the United States. When we played "Beatles" we no longer were their wives, we WERE the Beatles. My friends, twin sisters Abbie and Carol, were John and Paul, my friend Linda was Ringo, and I stuck with my beloved George, but I didn't have to iron his Nehru jacket -- I wore it. Now with the release of the new The Beatles: Rock Band video game, boys and girls can follow our 7th grade lead. But where are the girls like us? Every over-hyped news story interviews boys and grown men as if they are the only ones who might love the Beatles, and as if they are the only ones who want to grow up to be rock stars, drummers, guitarists, lyricists -- musicians. Every little girl I know and have known has loved the Beatles at some time in their lives, but they're being shut out by a media that only knows stereotypes. Sure, Guitar Hero, the first of this series of be-the-musician-without-taking-lessons games, has been a must-have for boys all over. And sure, girls have been slower to purchase new technology when it comes to video games; but marketers and the media, in going with stereotypes, are missing a huge market. And in so doing they are reconfirming age old stereotypes that boys are rockers but girls play the piano, boys pick up an instrument and just play but girls take lessons, and boys improvise but girls read music. The beauty of rock and roll for boys, and for girls, is that it often happens spontaneously and without parental input. Kids often simply pick up an instrument, call up some friends, and start a band. They don't need their parents, or lessons, or music, or a middle school band instructor telling them to Practice Practice Practice. They just need a garage or rec room or bedroom and some hand me down instruments. What confidence they have to do this! What independence! It's the kind of motivation we'd like all our kids to have. But why is this sport "boys only"? No doubt the players face throngs of screaming and fainting pre-teen girls, forgetting how many boys also were fans. Stereotypes mean that players and fans will divide neatly down gendered lines. It’s too late to change the media response to this new game. But the next time we should be aware of the way marketers and media take away from girls and women what’s rightfully theirs, Girls and women shouldn’t be forced to cry “me too!” while our guitars gently weep.

Comments

[Jennifer]

What's wrong with girls being pop stars? It's not like boys (like Jesse McCartney, Justin Timberlake, Jonas Brothers, Jason Mraz) aren't pops stars. And some pop stars-P!nk (watch "Stupid Girls"), Taylor Swift (no GP songs, but still cool!), Avril Lavigne (watch "Sk8ter Boi"), Miley Cyrus (watch "the Climb")-are good role models.

[Watch Full Movies]

I also agree with you. No doubt Taylor Swift, Avril Lavigne are really very good role models. I really love to watch movies online.

[ohplease]

There were also the Spice Girls, who were the first pop stars to symbolize Girl Power, especially in songs like Wannnabe.

[Pinay Teen]

In my opinion girls are more powerful role models than men. They can influence both genders and that makes them more effective role models.

[Jennifer]

Pinay Teen why do you think that?

PS Girl power-pop is mainly superficial, riot grrl is easiler to be taken seriously.

[Jennifer]

Taylor Swift DOES have a girl power song (see Black Disney Princess board). And you should watch I Always Get What I Want to see that Avril's girl power-pop.

[Jennifer]

...boys are rockers but girls play the piano...

Whats so wrong with girls being pianists? It's not like men aren't pianists (Billy Joel, The Fray, etc.) And some famous, mold-breaking female singer-songwriters happen to be pianists (Amanda Palmer, Vanessa Carlton, Alicia Keys, etc.)

[Jennifer]

Plus, isn't there a musical genre called "piano rock?" One that mixes piano music with rock?

[Jennifer]

http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2007/05/10/avril-lavigne-is-a-whiny-brat/

Scroll down and read the story at the bottom.

This punk-pop boy-LOVED ballet. I repeat, LOVED ballet. Real men wear pink...but heaven forbid a strong woman wear a dress! That's pretty much sexist in itself...

[office147]

The text goes on with the useful information, that stork couples are mostly heterosexual (who would have thought?) and that there are 9 male and 7 female storks at the zoo.

[Jennifer]

It's worth noting that some of the Beatles songs were soft pop songs, a Lighter and Softer version of Elvis. They got Darker and Edgier, but compared to other bands (Led Zeppelin, The Doors, Deep Purple, you get the picture) they were pretty tame. Their only "real" metal songs were "Ticket to Ride" and "Helter Skelter." (In my opinion, though, only the latter counts as a "true" metal song.)

[Jeckinson]

What do you think about Brithney Spears in the movie " Crossroads", Hilary Duff, Selena Gomez "Sinderella"? I liked it!!! Pretty funny ones!!!